We will save a lot of trouble and energy for you. Dating to find a romantic partner is just one of the many objectives. Eliminate the feeling that the partner must be emphasized to feel good about you. Some times in the case of boyfriends they could have traits which could annoy you- Even though it could lack respect dont let it bother you. Plan in advance to go to some amazing place next weekend and do implement it even if others are not interested. The mindset that the potential dates could avoid you based on your appearance and looks has to be removed completely for good.